out of the social norm? ::

i received a call which kind of upset my opinion on society in general i didn't know how to describe it, but its pretty unnerving, to me at least.

my tenant- a divorced study mama, called and cried over the phone, asking me some questions in relation to property and law.

her story in a nutshell, she says she's caught in some tangle of relationship with this seperated guy. she seems to want to get married to him despite him being embroiled in divorce proceedings and that he may eventually lose everything because of divorce. okay, my point not being that there's no point marrying someone who is about to lose everything, but rather i think she's not even sure if she likes him. she's marrying him simply because he's "pitiful"? that he'll suffer depression if she leaves him.

suddenly, the whole scenerio seemed a little lopsided. you know what i mean? on one hand, its a little too practical on the lady's side and too lovelorn on the guy's side?

personally, the tenant is somewhat my friend and i do like her values when i last talk to her. i think she's so down to earth and she's really not out to thrash any families and her daughter is so sweet.

but on the retrospective side, i think maybe its time to get into the real world. ideal relationships doesn't exist anymore. maybe people should start accepting divorce as part and parcel of their journey in life.

if they went through it all and succeeded aka eventually getting married, gee.. i wonder if its something based on convenience? it seemed to be so right on her part. i mean.. its a little warped to me that is, its like some decision that has no right or wrong.. and apparently, it might improved someone else's life. but isn't it a little dysfunctional?

man.. what did i just wrote? things are still a little hazy.. to me that is. or many i was just rambling on.. and lost my point. but well.. *shrugs* will update this again if i firmed up my opinions.