dale carnegie and our emotive brain ::
i wonder is dale carnegie the guy who set up carnegie mellon? like very familiar right?
anyway, was reading one of his books and there's one chapters which ask you to look at the other person's circumstances before being too harsh on the person.
why do i have this feeling that the people to practise that seem to be such.. "fake" people? sounds quite repressed doesn't it? but i think im going to practise that anyway. whahaha.. im going to perfect it until i sound "genuine" and you know, it reminded me of what the doctor said that time to be about circumstances and all. and i think my temper just doesn't allow me to buy reasons/excuses like that. sometimes. :P
then there i went, to karaoke, only to be bombarded by songs wanting people to experience freedom, love all aspects of life.. else which you would probably be deemed as having wasted your life on earth.. which i believe is quite true, cos well, emotions are one of the fundamental blocks of a human being isn't it? feeling certain feelings, ala anger, happiness and sadness.. all these are supposed to be a human beings' privilege isn't it? then the next part is to how to use them at the right situation and effectively right?
tired, shall blog more.
and on the last note, i really dislike people smoking in front of me. next time if any of my friends do that, in front of me. i'll walk away. bleh...
smoke you to death you!!!! /pokes you.
2 Comments:
Dale Carnegie is the person who wrote 'How to win friends & influence people', which is what I am reading when I have the time... not some melon guy. Hahaha~ Then again, I suppose ye know liao, cos ye should be reading the same book if my guess is correct :P
Some of his stories too outrageous liao, don't know real or not... Also don't know if will work on Singaporeans or not... :P
Hmm... another future people-manipulator in the training, hahaha~ have fun :D
yes yes.. hahahaha.. the guy in the carnegie mellon setup is andrew carnegie.
whahhaa.. im still half way.. so many books to make and bookings to make..
zhor gang!!!
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