qualities you look for in a bf/gf ::

i always felt its unfair to do a 'requirement list'. you know like, erm, okay, he has to be
1. tall
2. dark
3. handsome
4. blah blah

but then again, i think its quite avoidable and in fact even biological that you'll do something like that, even mentally, cos its all in due course with Mother Nature - in something otherwise known as natural selection. :P broadly speaking that is. Let's say for instance, there're only 2 kinds of people on this planet. the exciting and boring. if the exciting cannot stand the boring, and the boring cannot stand themselves, so naturally, the boring people will die out. either that or exciting and boring people will die out because they're bored to death. hahaa. erm, okay. not funny. but anyway. yah.

so i had a list of 'don't wants' and 'wants' and its not exhaustive nor inflexible. which means, those items can be taken out anytime or appended to anytime.

Don't Want someone who (eeks!)

1. cannot make me laugh aka boring. (tough right?! haha)
   
2. was/is very happy that he's in phase C in NS? and devise all sorts of methods to siam NS.
   
3. is quiet and does not attempt to make conversation despite prompts. like that O levels Oral how to pass?
   
4. refuses to interact with my friends. wassup? they're all jun nan mei nu!
   
5. ignorant and arrogant. arrogant about being ignorant? huh?
   

Prefers someone who

1. tall, dark and handsome (when im in a bimbo state of mind) haha! :P. no lah, so far i only know 1 guy like that and he's almost taken. *humph*
   
2. is intelligent. not intellectual. there's a difference. being intelligent is so sexsay okay!
   
3. is confident and takes initiative. that's another desirable trait! i think when a person is confident, he'll probably be initiative. if he's insecure, he is likely to be reckless AND DESPERATE. waahhaaa.. okay okay.. im biased. its a tat old fashion, but then again, im never an advocate of extreme feminism. im on for NS if the country so desires.
   
4. can laugh at himself and make me laugh. but then again, the latter is a bit subjective. but i guess the overall objective is to make conversations a bit more bearable.
   
5. is passionate and focus about something, like programming, art, sport, music you know, something and is focused on it. now now, that's a very desirable trait. so sexsay hor?!
   

very hard to find meh? in fact, the guys i'd really liked before, only 2 look good enough and are tall to be models. :P anyway, these are nearly 'guidelines' doesn't mean you fulfil all these requirements, one has to like you, get what i mean. i like people in specs, but someone in specs liking me doesn't mean i'll have to like them. chemistry plays a part too! okay lah, not that im in the position to comment on, or judge who i like and what kinda requirements i like, just that the above is said in a light hearted manner and is a entry spun after a rather funny and interesting conversation with a friend.

anyway, if you're asking me what kinda guys do girls normally like, i think the above should it be as well. the first requirement is a joke lah. now laugh! unless you count those 'picky'/meticulous girls who prefer their bfs to pull the chair for them, sms them daily report of their diets and sleeping bio patterns, then its a whole total ball game together. that, it'll be wise to enrol in Shatec to learn the finer points of customer service and fine dining to win their hearts. ;) erm. jia you! ahhahaa..

apparently, lawyer after reading this, asked me if he fits the bill. after i told him he does, but he is however someone i'm not interested in, he OFFLINED on me. wassup brother?!! next time if you want to hear a lie, just tell me lah, then i can prepare sufficiently! hahhaa.. don't have to be so petty what! hahaha... :P